The Love Of My Life…
Category: My Thoughts
Moving…
It is amazing how quickly life can change your attitude around. At one point in my life (just a few short weeks ago), I was preaching that I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship unless I found someone that could take my breath away… Today I am writing to let you know… that the woman that has taken by breath away, has agreed with me to move in together to start a life of “us”.
What is going to happen in the next few weeks will be an amazing transition in my life… a life that I never thought I would find in my lifetime…
I’m moving in…
To Be Continued…
robert1ee
Found Love…
I sincerely apologize for not posting to my blog much of late…
What has happened to me over the past month is nothing but a miracle. I have met someone. Someone that I didn’t think was possible to find in my lifetime. I would describe her as a soulmate… even though I don’t quite believe that a soulmate does exist. What this woman has shown me, has done for me, is amazing and has taken my heart away.
Is it crazy to say you can be ‘In Love’ after only a few weeks? Is it even possible to be in love after just a few weeks? I know I am. I know she is. We have expressed this to one another and both feel just as comfortable with one another. Its almost as if… we have known each other all of our lives.
She has met one side of my family and I have met her mother… and even though the time we had with the families was only a few hours with them, our family members have told us (he or she) was the one. They really liked “Us”. Again, they felt completely comfortable, almost as if, we have all known each other forever.
There is a good chance, in a few short weeks, we will be moving in together and start a life of “Us”. I can’t wait for this moment, and she can’t wait for this moment either.
To my readers… Love is out there, the trick is… act like you don’t want it for it to find you.
To Be Continued…
robert1ee
P.S. I will get my blogging habits in order… I won’t go a month of no post again! lol
Marriage happens…
“[Marriage] happens as with cages: the birds without despair to get in, and those within despair of getting out.” *
― Michel de Montaigne
*I am not saying I will never find love again, but simply stating that, in light of facing a truth, being single has as many advantages as being married does.
My life, as it is today, is happy that I am not married… Why? Well, because I enjoy flirting and meeting new people. When you get into a relationship… it seems to start to cripple my strengths. I am a people person. Many people are not. I enjoy flirting. Many relationships see this as a sign of cheating. So why would I tie myself down if I can be better off flying solo?
I won’t let love fly by without notice though. If there so happens to be woman out there than can handle my personality and sense of humor, then I will be happy to look into the possibilities of being with said woman. However, it seems to me that this is harder than one would think. There are over 7 billion people on this planet… I am sure there is a woman out there that I am attracted to that is attracted to me and can handle me. lol
But until said woman walks into my life… I will continue to be me!
robert1ee
Amazes Me, Pt. V
Really… Seriously… I can name a few differences that it does makes, Hillary Clinton. Since you are the Secretary of State, why don’t your Dems keep telling us how many miles you have traveled and/or how you’re the best Secretary of State of all time instead of asking real questions that most Americans want answers too.
robert1ee
Other Ways You Can Follow Me!
It has taken me awhile to do so, but I have managed to get the same name across many networks. Below are different ways you can follow (stalk) my life. lol
facebook.com/robert1ee
twitter.com/robert1ee
instagram: @robert1ee
Tumblr: robert1ee
new.myspace.com/robert1ee
linkedin.com/in/robert1ee
Plus you can always go to my personal hub and find links to different sites. Just click HERE to take you to my site!
I want to say thanks to each and every one of my followers and readers. I hope you have enjoyed what I have posted, and I’m sure you will enjoy what I will post throughout the year 2013!
robert1ee
Goals for 2013…
I dedicated 2012 for a year to improve myself… and although I didn’t quite get everything accomplished that I wanted to in that year, I did accomplish many things. 2013 is going to be a continuation of finishing my goals and I have set new ones as well.
Goals for 2013:
- Family: I want to continue to grow closer to my family. I want to get to know my nephews/nieces better. I want to get closer with my younger brother. I want to be there for my other brothers and sister when they need me to. I love my parents, and I want to make sure they know how much I do, and how much I appreciate them.
- Friends: My true friends haven’t changed one bit over this past year. I love each and every one of them. I have come to know who my true friends are over this past year, and I am thankful for each and every one of you. Over this next year, I want to strengthen these relationships. I want to be there for them whenever they need a friend near, as I would hope they would be there for me.
- Job: I want to further my skills within my company to become an even better person. I want to be able to have the abilities to handle many of the task thrown my way, and I want to show my boss that I am capable of handling this position, without question. I also want to branch out into the entertainment industry and become a DJ. I am saving up for the equipment, which should be purchased by March, and I hope I can excel in this industry and make a name for myself.
- Blog: I am now running a few different sites. I want to improve my postings throughout this year. I post on here, my poetry blog, and my new DJ blog. You can find all my social media/blog information at robert1ee.com. I want to get a following by posting information or insightful thinking that my readers are interested in reading.
- Personal: I want to improve myself more by trying to be 100% honest with myself. I am not happy with my current weight, so I need to get back on a healthy workout plan to get myself back in shape. I have considered joining the ‘Body by V’ Challenge which I know a certain someone that would be very happy to get me on board with that challenge. I also want to improve my behavior skills. Looking over the 2012 year, I felt I was in a depressed state of mind for more of that year than what I really wanted to be. I need to get my mind set to stay positive. In order to stay positive I must change a few things: (1) Stay 100% with myself; (2) Don’t say yes to people when I’m saying ‘no’ to myself; (3) Become happy with my health; (4) Surround myself with people that will keep me in a better state of mind. But most of all… don’t lose myself. Who I am people love. People know Robert as the light of the party and as a fun guy to be around. I enjoy being that person, but to make myself love being that person, I must improve myself in the areas I mentioned above.
There are going to be changes in my life in 2013… And if you don’t believe me, just watch.
2012 was my year… 2013 will be the foundation for the rest of my life.
-robert1ee
the end and the beginning…
As this year has come to an end… I look back at everything that has happened this year, and I am grateful. I told myself to make 2012 my year… And I think I had a great year in doing just that.
I started the year off with a great birthday party with amazing friends. I love each and every one of you. You have no idea how much your presence helped me get through this year.
I finalized my divorce. That was a hard one. I need to move on with my life, as did she, and so as we closed this chapter in our lives, we both have moved on to live our own lives.
Very close friends of mine became engaged! I couldn’t be more happy for the two of them! Tiffany and Aaron, you two are amazing and I can’t wait to see you two on your wedding day! Love you guys!
I officially broke into the DJ business. I did two parties and everyone had positive comments on how I performed. That has made me decide to get into this business and start doing gigs. My first wedding is already booked, and I can’t wait to make memories for them.
I feel my best friend and I have spent more time this year hanging out than many of the past years. I love her and her daughter to death. They both are amazing people in my life, and without them, it would be hard to make it through some weeks.
My sister got married and had a baby! She is also expecting a second one that will be due in 2013. Her husband, Kane, is a wonderful guy and I’m glad he is my brother-in-law. He is a great addition to our crazy family! Lol. You two are perfect for each other. Love you guys!
My personally life wasn’t as great as I had hoped it would be… However; this year wasn’t about me having relations, it was about growing myself and finding myself. I went through many personal changes and have started to improve myself in many ways.
My roommate, Christyna Smith, has been amazing. Right when I absolutely needed a roommate, you just happened to want to be my roommate. You are an amazing woman, you are an amazing cook, and you actually like to helps keep the house clean. Thank you for everything.
I have met many new friends along this year, and I have lost many friends this year too. People will come and go in your life, and that’s ok. I have learned to let go and let the past be the past. Which is always very hard for me to do.
I started working for a new company this year that has been amazingly beyond my expectations. Not only does this job fulfill my goals of working in a field of my degree, but it is a very fast pace, exciting, and motivating opportunity as well. I love this job, I have an amazing boss, and I can’t wait to see what 2013 will become of our company.
I hope everyone had amazing year and let’s make 2013 another amazing year!
P.S. If I forgot to mention you… No worries, I’m just trying to write a quick summary of the year, and I’ll add to this as more memories come to mind.
To Be Continued…
robert1ee
robert1ee’s blog 2012 in review
The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2012 annual report for this blog.
Here’s an excerpt:
600 people reached the top of Mt. Everest in 2012. This blog got about 2,500 views in 2012. If every person who reached the top of Mt. Everest viewed this blog, it would have taken 4 years to get that many views.
True Friendship…
This is always a hard one for me… but if it’s meant to be, it is meant to be.