This topic gets a bit deeper into my bodies physics; however, I feel that it is a great subject to continue my “A Glimpse Into My Life…” series…
The continued blog is a very personal issue… and for me to talk openly about this issue, is something I have become comfortable with. I hope to educate some people that may not know about this condition, or may have this condition but didn’t know what it was/is…
A medical condition where a man can not ejaculate (finish) during sexual intercourse is called Delayed Ejaculation. This condition exist in many men throughout the World. Some are born with it, some acquire it over time… but the issues can become a serious breaking point in many relationships.
Symptoms of said condition:
- Takes longer than 30 minutes to “climax”.
- You cannot “climax” during sexual intercourse.
- Can “climax” only when masturbating or sometimes oral.
Delayed orgasm is divided into the following types based on symptoms:
- Lifelong vs. acquired. With lifelong delayed ejaculation, the problem is present from the time a male reaches sexual maturity. Acquired delayed ejaculation occurs after a period of normal sexual functioning.
- Generalized vs. situational. Generalized delayed ejaculation isn’t limited to certain sex partners or certain kinds of stimulation. Situational delayed ejaculation occurs only under certain circumstances.
Causes to How This Can Happen…
Physical Causes
- Birth defects
- Spinal injury
- Heart surgery
Psychological Causes
- Depression
- Stress
- Anxiety about performance
Medications and Other Causes:
- Antidepressants
- High Blood Pressure Meds
- Alcohol (too much of it in your system)
- Drugs (illegal)
Every since 9th grade… I have experienced this. It has its blessing, and it has its problems. For starters… I can’t accidently get a lady pregnant. I can “perform” for hours without needing breaks except to catch our breaths. However, because many ladies are insecure, they start to assume it is their “performance” that is terrible. And because of this terrible “performance”, I have relationships end thinking that they couldn’t satisfy me.
Truth be told… I have always been satisfied/satisfying, this has never been a problem. It is hard to tell a lady; however, that this doesn’t result from their “lack of experience” that they believe, that it is actually a personal issue/condition that I have.
I have learned to live with my condition, and even joke about it from time to time to close friends and/or relationships I have had. However, when asked if I’ll be having kids anytime soon… that is when I usually get serious and say “doubtful”. Most don’t know, including my parents, that I have had this condition for such a long time; however, I do hope this will answer some of their questions on why my ex-wife and I never did have children.
Will I ever have children? I do hope so. I love kids. I would love to have the responsibilities that come with them. I would love to be a father, a daddy. Because of my condition, most likely I’ll have to go through special measures to have one; however, if the partner is right and we have the right chemistry, then you never know…
To Be Continued…
-robert1ee