Does waking up to someone in bed every morning make you happy? What if it is someone different every time… Or rather… does having meaningless relationships make you happy? Or would you rather just have someone to call upon when you are lonely…
It’s sad… but when one truly looks at the situation… you can see both parties are just being used. But why? Why? How does this work? How, possibly, in the back of your mind, can you believe that you are doing something good for your feelings/heart when you don’t even love what you are doing?
It makes me wonder… Why do it in the first place then? What is the point in these meaningless relationships… Is it to just make you happy? Is it to satisfy your sexual cravings? Is it to making you feel less lonely… when in actuality, it makes you feel even more so???
Maybe I’m approaching this to sensitive… I mean… it’s just fucking right? Right? What is wrong with sex being just sex? Why does there always have to be feelings involved? Emotions involved? Why can’t just two people get together and just enjoy something wonderful…
That last paragraph is something I’ll never know the answer to. I’ll never understand how one could eventually allow themselves to have sex ONLY because they feel lonely or needed. And to do it with someone that doesn’t care about you or your feelings, but to only satisfy their own loneliness or neediness.
I am a man. I am sensitive. I do care about who I have sex with. I don’t want meaningless relationships. I do love. I do fall in love. I do care about other’s emotions. Call me what you want… but this, my dear friends, is what is missing. This, my dear friends, is why relationships of this sort I have talked about above… will never work. Cause without emotions, without caring, WITHOUT… love… this is just lust.
And lust, to me, is a desease that the mind makes up just to make you feel less lonely. Lust… hurts the soul and cripples the body… and will never… truly… make one happy.
-The Other Point Of View
A good friend just made this post and thought I’d share it to all my followers: Bullying of an elder.
And here is a bit more to add to her blog:
What is even more sad… is that parents have no clue because they are not being parents. And I agree… I knew what would happen to me if I talked like that. I keep saying that they need to bring punishments back to schools. I remember my teachers in first grade smacking knuckles of kids hands when they would talk back. Our principle was allowed to spank children with bad behavior. Another issue is… child protection advocates. I’m not saying it’s right to beat a child… but damn… there is nothing wrong with a good spanking to teach them a lesson. Children are not “scared” of their parents anymore for their bad behavior, because they know their parents can’t touch them. And once the parent does… the child will make a big deal out of it and then you have the school board and police doing investigations.
Another issue is the school itself. Schools are being told left and right about bullying that is going on, and the schools just ignore it. They say they’ll look into it just to put peace in your mind, but they aren’t doing anything about it. Schools and Parents are the worse corporates of these events. Lack of good parenting (teaching of right and wrong and actually going through with bad behavior punishments) and the schools lack of following through with bullying complaints. It is sickening that schools just seem to not care.
Bullying has been going on for decades… but it seems like in this last decade… they have gone from light hazing events to all out jumping and killing someone. And the kid being picked on are afraid to stand up and fight… because bullies do not fight far anymore either. It’s not one and one anymore… you fight once with your bully… they come back with all their friends. Now its one on six+. OR the bully comes to school the next day with a gun or knife. So what do you do… one kid brought a taser gun to school in Indianapolis, Indiana to protect himself against bullies. Probably not the right answer, but it sure as hell got the school board in the spotlight to do something about it. The press has been all over that event.
Something does need to change… and quickly… because right now, the kids getting picked on aren’t all resorting to weapons yet… but I have a feeling that will change if they feel that is the only way to protect them… which is sad. Remember Columbine? That was a result of a kid being picked on wasn’t it??? And that was his retaliation??? That was over a decade ago… and nothing has changed. If anything… it has become worse.
I just hope we find a solution before more schools have died students and everyone wondering what happened…
-The Other Point of View
Everything Happens for A Reason…
We all just hope that we find out what that reason is sooner than later…
-The Other Point of View
Sometimes life… gives you lemons. Sometimes life… gives you roses. Well… I know I’m not perfect… but anyone that wants to judge me before judging themselves… this picture below illustrates my thoughts exactly…
-The Other Point of View